I see people trying to fit in their corporate lives.....
Trying to be a part of the so called social elite class.....
Trying fit in the best universities and jobs.....
Or me trying to fit in a dress smaller to my size :p
What is it that doesn't allow us to be ourselves when we are in public?
Yes I understand that we all have to behave well so that we don't cause discomfort to people around us and that's totally fine.
But does that mean we transform ourselves?
I always used to behave myself and try to adapt to the environment around me.But as soon as I realized that I am compromising with so many things in my life just to fit in . I asked questions to myself ....
What if I offend my parents with my decisions?
What if I gain weight and I don't look good and maybe bullied because I have seen that happen to other girls and somewhere I was also involved in it....
What if my friends make fun of me if I choose to wear my old comfy clothes,sit at home and watch and old movie which I enjoy and not the well dressed,drunk ,EDM dance party ?
I always used to change my decisions according to the requirement of other people.
The answer to the question is the day I removed these inhibitions from my mind ....I have started to feel the happiness and trust me there are a thousand people around you who are dying to do what you love ....All you need to do is step out...do what you love and people will join you ....that is a much happier place.
Fact is that we all are so involved in teasing other people for their uniqueness that we are afraid to be at the recieving end and we just want to FIT IN......
Step out and live your life your way...Cheers!!!!
